How do you self sabotage a relationship? We all have baggage, well unless you have never been in a relationship before. Due to your last relationship you probably got hurt in some way, mistreated, lied to or disrespected. Therefore, when you get in your next relationship you recognize certain characteristics of your old boyfriend or girlfriend and assume that they are doing the same thing with the same intentions as your ex. You have to control your emotions through your thoughts and realize that they are two different people. If not you will create more baggage because he or she will leave you and you will be wondering why in the world you cannot keep a good man or woman in your life.
