I often hear individuals complain about what is wrong in their life and how they want a change but instead of talking about the change they want, they complain about where they are. They will say such things like, “I hate my job,” “I am not making enough money,” or “My boyfriend is lazy.”
What is the end result? They attract more of what they don’t want.
Why? The things you talk about you give energy to and what you give energy to you attract more of. This principle is known as the Law of Attraction.
The person who says, “I do not make enough money working here,” will attract more events in their life that will cause them not to make enough money. This may come in the form of car malfunctions, poor tips, or late fees but the end result is that you will attract more events that will take away from your financial means. Up until this point I have used the words “they” and “their” in order to keep from pointing my finger but I want you to look at your life and ask yourself what are some of the things that are consistently happening to you that you don’t like. Are you always involved in the wrong relationship? Are you accumulating more and more debt? Are you gaining more weight? Take stock and then ask yourself what is your conversation concerning the subject you are having issues with?
The solution to your problem? Focus on what you want in your life and avoid voicing those things that you don’t like. (I know its hard) To be honest the change will more than likely happen gradually but by making a conscious effort to change your focus you will in return change your life.